Today at Nampa College Church we held a memorial service for Gene Clark. Over the last two years, Gene has been a blessing in my life as a pastor. Each time I saw him at church, at home, or in the hospital, I was always greeted with a smile, with warmth, and usually with a reminder that I am his favorite pastor.
I struggled to find the right text to describe Gene and his love of God and his care for the church. And so I wrote something a bit theologically risky – perhaps even borderline heretical. I rewrote a well-known biblical text in Gene’s honor.
Historically, the church - although more often than not led by men - has found its day-to-day life sustained by the presence of its faithful women. Every church has a long list of saintly women who have been the lifeblood of every congregation. Pastors know that the second most important Sunday of the year - after Easter - is Mother’s Day. Father’s Day on the other hand… is not so important. People come to worship with their mothers. People skip church and go to the baseball game or go play 18 holes with their fathers.
Nevertheless, every great church I have been a part of or led has had at least one great layman – a man who is or was faithful, persistent, and steady. I promise you that every pastor can name that key layman who kept the church going before you arrived, supported the church while you were there, and kept the church moving after you left. The names of those men were always revered in my house: names like Paul Hill, John Wordsworth, Norm Hagen, Dave Peterson, Mike Bell, Rusty Williams, Phil Lindquist, Neil Rimington, Larry Rench, Chuck Young, Henry Yu… and now most recently Gene Clark.
So I’d like to take one of the great odes in Scripture – Proverbs 31 - and reframe it in Gene’s honor and in the honor of the great laymen I have known in my life. The great sage of biblical wisdom is correct; every husband desperately needs a virtuous wife. But I’m here to tell you: every pastor desperately needs a virtuous layman.
An Ode to a Virtuous Layman (Based on Proverbs 31)
A virtuous layman, how does one find him?
His value is far above pearls.
His worth is far above gold.
His pastor trusts him with all the church’s secrets.
In him the pastor has a spiritual wingman, a holy sidekick, a righteous partner-in-crime.
A virtuous layman fills a pastor’s ministry with many blessings and few headaches.
A virtuous layman always rounds up when they tithe.
He always shows up for church work-days.
He never forgets pastor appreciation month, and he cares for the pastor like they are part of his family.
He is the first to arrive on Sunday morning to make sure the lights and heat are on.
When the big snow comes, he shows up before dark with his gloves and his shovel.
You never have to worry about leaving him in charge of the resources;
His integrity, honesty, and stewardship are never questioned.
The virtuous layman is always thinking about the church’s wellbeing.
In board meetings he consistently brings the right balance of caution and faith.
He doesn’t always need to be heard, but when he speaks people listen because they know it will be with wisdom and courage.
He doesn’t expect others to do things he won’t do.
The virtuous layman offers his back and his sweat and not just his checkbook.
His heart is sensitive to God.
He says “amen” in the right places.
He’s not afraid to kneel at the altar.
He prays with authority.
The virtuous layman always keeps a good seat ready for the poor.
He is eager for the church’s resources to be extended out in mission.
He keeps a watchful eye on the church building. He maintains God’s house with the same care and concern he gives his own.
He has keys to every room in the church. He knows how to set up tables, turn on the lights, work the vacuum, and run the sound system.
He maintains a commercial license so he can drive the youth to camp.
The merchants in town honor and respect the virtuous layman.
They all know which church he belongs to; he invites his friends regularly.
The civic leaders respect him and wish there were more men like him in town.
The virtuous layman loves and nurtures his family.
His children think of the church as a second home.
They have heard him talk regularly about his love for God.
His grandchildren honor the legacy of faith he has given them.
His children are blessed by his faithfulness
His wife knows he is a person of integrity.
Although things aren’t always run the way he would like, the virtuous layman has a positive word to say about what’s happening at the church.
Even in troubling times, he refuses to be a source of division.
The church is full of all kinds of people,
But faithful laymen - like Gene Clark – you surpass them all!
Church hoppers are fleeting.
Senior pastors will come and go.
But a virtuous layman who fears the LORD is to be most highly praised.
Let him enter into his rest in Christ’s presence.
Let his deeds be honored in God’s courts.
May he hear from the Lord’s mouth: “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”
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